The Wedding Gift: Giving a Memory

A wedding gift can actually refer to several possible items. First of all, there's the wedding gift that you give to the happy couple. The wedding couple also decides on wedding party gifts. These are wedding gifts for the bridesmaids and groomsmen. Finally, there are wedding favor gifts, small tokens that are given to wedding guests in appreciation of their attendance.

In many cases, buying a wedding gift for the bride and groom is a simple matter thanks to the gift registry. The couple-to-be registers at several different stores around town (or online), choosing a list of items they would like to receive. People who want to buy a wedding gift take a look at the wedding registry and find something in their budget. Once they've bought the gift, it's marked off the list so the couple isn't burdened with the agony of receiving two identical gifts.

Even if the couple isn't registered anywhere, wedding gifts are still pretty easy to come up with. The idea is to express your good wishes for their special day and their upcoming life together. A gourmet gift basket often does nicely and nobody ever has too many linens. Personal items like spa visits and sports tickets are also popular now. Your choice of gift may be determined by how much time they've spent together and whether or not they've already set up a joint household. Your rule should be to find a gift that fits the couple and your budget.

Wedding party gifts began as a way to express appreciation for those who participate in your wedding and they seem to be a permanent fixture of weddings today. But choosing the right wedding party gift can be very stressful during the wedding planning process. You want to express your very real appreciation to everyone involved in the wedding ceremony, but you don't want to break your wedding budget. If you have lots of children participating in your wedding, you might want to get them candy canes or other edible treats. Bridesmaids are usually fairly easy to reward. Jewelry or handbags are popular choices. Sometimes groomsmen are a little tougher, but different types of engraved wedding gifts for men are available.

Wedding favor gifts can also have a big impact on the wedding budget. Wedding favors are given to the wedding guests in appreciation for their attendance. For wedding favors, remember it's the thought that counts. Usually a small packet of candy or confetti tied up with wedding favor gift tags will do nicely. Did you know you can get custom-printed M&M's? Print your wedding date on the candy and give it away at the reception.

Of course, in the years to come there will be wedding anniversary gifts. Anniversary gifts are normally given by the husband and wife to each other, but some relatives and close friends may choose to mark the special occasion with a gift as well. This is especially true of "milestone" anniversary dates, like 10 years, 25 years and 50 years.

Weddings are hopefully once-in-a-lifetime events that are memorable for everyone involved. Even after decades of marriage, couples often continue using wedding gifts and know exactly who gave them. Weddings are all about commitment and memories, so don't stress over the gift budget. Instead, focus on the thought and meaning behind the wedding gift and enjoy the celebration.